I have written many things on this blog, related to fun events, travels, and a little school here and there (because isn't that the way life goes? ha, ha). But I have not really described what it is like to study abroad. So here it is:
It's like the first semester of college all over again, but this time you're surrounded by people speaking a foreign language and you're living with a family of strangers (aka host family). Sounds fun, right?
But after the initial shock, the people of the family you live with are not strangers. They are concerned for your well-being, but they give you freedom to come and go as you please. They find out which foods you like and feed them to you. They teach you interesting tidbits about the culture and the language. They become your family, your extended family that lives abroad.
The language takes some getting used to, but all you have to do is give it time and keep trying. Every day I learn more, every week I notice I am speaking better Spanish than the week before. It's amazing. I almost wish I could stay here a whole year to really get fluent, but Bozeman is calling me...
Before I left for Argentina, at the Study Abroad Orientation, I kept hearing "keep your sense of humor." I thought, "Great advice. How am I going to do that when I have no idea what is going on?" But now, three months after my arrival, I understand. Your sense of humor is all in your head, in your imagination, in your way of looking at things. I now understand enough Spanish that I can laugh at people's jokes, but even more than that I feel comfortable and happy enough here that I can step back, look at a situation, and laugh. I can sit on the Subte (subway) listening to music and people watching, and laugh. And it's all very entertaining.
At this point, the less English I hear and speak every day, the better.
Every move has an adjustment period. New place, new people, new way of life, and in the case of Study Abroad, new language. Adjusting takes time. But when you can allow yourself to feel comfortable and confident doing what you're doing, life is awesome.
And when all else fails, you always have your sense of humor.